对话录1·不自知

 

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多多: 你为什么想留在那里?

倾诉:其实,我说不太清楚,真的想,大学在这读了四年,去别的城市还能接受么?我怕到了二等城市受不了, 也很难有什么作为吧?你看,我对北京都这么熟了,再到另一个地方去,很不习惯的……

多多:你是怕不习惯,当初你从小城市到北京这样的大城市,已经证明你是可以习惯陌生环境了,把这个原因去掉呢?

倾诉:那去掉吧,可是,熟悉需要时间的,这个心里会很崩溃,很纠结。

多多:呵呵,这些词语很流行啊。

倾诉:是啊,就像“蚁族”和“蜗居”一样,虽然很让人害怕,但我觉得那样也蛮有意思的,怎么的也是在北京上海,像蚂蚁一样,也是值得的,大城市,机会也多啊。

多多:你不怕抓不到机会就老了么?

倾诉:说实话,怕,虽然怕,还是想留下。

多多:你觉得,如果你在北京工作,家里人是不是很光荣?

倾诉:我觉得是吧,应该是吧,呵呵,谁家不是啊。

多多:当初考大学,是一定要考某个专业,还是?

倾诉:呵呵,当初是非进北京不可,当年我高考的分数,其实可以上一个专业实力更强的学校,毕竟北京嘛,唉,到这后才发现,学校很袖珍……

多多:后悔过没?

倾诉:很复杂,说不上来,有点后悔吧,但是再让我选一次,我还会选择这个。

多多:怕别人说你虚荣么?

倾诉:谁不怕啊?

多多:我说你,你会生气么?

倾诉:肯定不会高兴吧,呵呵。

多多:你自以为留在北京和虚荣相关吗?

倾诉:以前觉得是,仔细剖析一下,觉得不全是,还有福利待遇啥的,有时候想一想,我留下来了,下一代不就省事了,上学啊,户口啊。

多多:你留下来了,能保证在北京结婚么?

倾诉:不一定,对象也是外地的,还没找到工作。

多多:你的下一代有多大概率成长在优良、健康的环境下,我是指,至少住所和就学。

倾诉:谁知道啊,都没准的事,太远了,以后再说吧。

多多:你多大了?

倾诉:我今年25岁。

多多:预计多大结婚成家?

倾诉:大概,至少30岁之前吧。

多多:这么算来,可不远了啊……

倾诉:……

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【关联文】

对话录1·虚荣到不自知;

对话录2·你只是太闲了;

对话录3·你不是真的想离开

对话录5·你在意的那些其实是什么?

 


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