粗心大意是掩饰的谎言

 

 

Chapter.3         粗心大意是掩饰的谎言       
                                                                                    

    “考试状态还行,题出得还算正常,就是有几个地方粗心大意了,要不然 我会考得比现状好的多,多的多……”
    以上是你常借来搪塞自己,聊以自慰的惯用语。说实话,不比我当年的谎言高明到哪里去,呵呵,终归是来自同一个版本DNA 的姐弟。    
    我发现了自己在“如果不粗心”的条件下,会给自己提高许多排名上的阶层,在红榜上把位置提前一大截,这并不令人惊奇,令我真正惊奇的是——在某个特定的圈子中,最优秀的那个家伙也会像笨笨的我们那样粗心大意,正如他(她)是最优秀的那个结局一样,我们的粗心大意导致了失分,而优秀的人的粗心大意并没有对水平的发挥起到多余的副作用。     

  • 即:实力足够雄厚的人不受粗心大意这一缺点的限制,粗心大意地做事情, 一样做得不会很糟糕,尽管效率不会很高,算出的答案还都能大多是对的。又如同与人相处,更如同考场发挥,做得足够好,粗心大意不会占据决定分数因素的主导。    

每个人都会粗心大意,到底“粗”到什么程度,“大”到什么地步,实际就是实力强壮的程度。一次几乎裸体式地暴露了你所有薄弱环节的考试,你就会怀疑当时的考场里自己在想什么呢,自己是怎么了,你以“粗心大意”去掩饰了实力薄弱这一事实,你是会很快找到开脱罪责的后路—-“下次认真点”,它顺其自然地成为抚平你伤痛的幌子。

可是,在试卷难易程度存在概率的情况下,一个实力不够强壮的人, 再仔细能仔细出什么实力呢?    

  
所谓“粗心大意”就是对知识的不熟悉,是仅了解到而没有掌握到的内容,如你小时吃饭同道理,小时的你总趴在桌子边直立着吃饭以防饭食半路打嗝形成“倒流”或是吃到满身,你是很认真细心地用勺吃饭舀菜,总有星星般的小米粒粘你两腮挥之不去,为何?是吃饭的技术掌握得不够纯熟。

十一、二个月的成熟你无法保证手中的勺恰巧被送入口中,把饭粒倒在与嘴巴接近的方圆1CM 近的小脸腮边实属正常举动,去怪罪你会吃饭却粗心大意地把饭弄到脸上全然是没有道理的,是明明白白开脱你不会吃饭的理由,考试,亦如是。  

现如今十七、八岁的你边骑自行车边吃零食,边看电视边粗心大意地想着你与电视情节有关的经历,都不会把饭再送到脸上,为何?吃饭的技术掌握得足够纯熟。     

足够纯熟的技能不会因为粗心大意而影响发挥,学习考试、与人交往上亦 同此道理,所谓的错心大意不过是一个宽容自己的借口而已。实力足够雄厚的人不受粗心大意这一缺点的限制,粗心大意地做事情,一样是对的,如同与人相处,更如同考场发挥,做得足够好,粗心大意不会占主导。      (文/吕布凡)

 

 

 

 

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