你的名字,代表什么?

你的名字,代表什么?

                                                                                   文/吕布凡

给低年级(大学以下)学生上课的时候,学生常常会问这样一句话,这句话很多人年轻的时候都问过,虽然我没有问过,但是布布小时候也总理所当然、自以为是地去猜测过。

“我就是那个XX学生啊,你忘了我的名字么?”

工作后的人,稍微用心的人就会去学一些所谓游走于社会的“厚黑心理学”,则是努力去记住客户和新来领导的名字;工作后的人去嘲笑新来的菜鸟不懂规则,刚工作的人回去嘲笑大学生,太自大,除了可以获得一个不能直接“食用”的毕业证,其余什么都做不了;大学生回去嘲笑中学生,别把自己当回事,大家都在争夺利益,你叫什么一点也没有意义,你在帮谁干活才有意义。

我最近所遇到的就是文里提到的最基层的那个档次的学生–中学生。

他们问我:“我就是那个XX学生啊,你忘了我的名字么?”

呵呵,我一直都不乐意去打击他们,常常半违心地去说一个“非谎话”—-有印象。知道今天,恢复了一个网上留言的学生,对话如下:


学生:老师,您又忘了我的名字了?
布布:知道你是谁。
学生:老师,你觉得我是怎样一个人?
布布:孩子,你是什么人不重要,重要的是你要成为什么样的人,要自信,要踏实。

………………

 

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