只回头，不嘲讽

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只回头，不嘲讽

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  • 有这样一批年轻人，高考之后没能进入优秀的学府求学，回头告诉人们说：当时就玩了，没有认真读书。

 

  • 有这样一批青年，工作之后没能找到合适的职位，回头告诉父母：当时该托关系的人都占据了良好的位置，自己是刚正不低头的。

 

  • 有这样一批默默无闻的工作人员，在几年的工作之后没能得到薪水的增加亦没有得找职位的升迁，回头告诉家人说：当时没有多拍拍领导马屁，就闷头干活了。（ 为什么做得还不够好 ？）

 

这样的人们，共同的特点是，当他们在现在的“现实”中发现没有什么能得到的时候，用消极的眼睛去拨开自己的奋斗历程，并且恶狠狠地把它们全部否定，以求现在良心上的安慰。（认清自己有多难？）

真正当他们可以勇敢面对过去，能细细回顾过去的每一天的时候，其实…………人们可以泪流满面，只是，很少去有这个勇气去反思（  反思不是目的），太多人喜欢回头去否定，太少人去猜想：

今天又将是未来哪一天的过去？

 

 

 

 

对话录3·你不是真的想离开

对话录5·你在意的那些其实是什么？

 莫犯“高级”错误

你能承担得起怎样的成本？

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