只回头,不嘲讽

 

只回头,不嘲讽

                               文/吕布凡

  • 有这样一批年轻人,高考之后没能进入优秀的学府求学,回头告诉人们说:当时就玩了,没有认真读书。

 

  • 有这样一批青年,工作之后没能找到合适的职位,回头告诉父母:当时该托关系的人都占据了良好的位置,自己是刚正不低头的。

 

  • 有这样一批默默无闻的工作人员,在几年的工作之后没能得到薪水的增加亦没有得找职位的升迁,回头告诉家人说:当时没有多拍拍领导马屁,就闷头干活了。( 为什么做得还不够好 ?

 

这样的人们,共同的特点是,当他们在现在的“现实”中发现没有什么能得到的时候,用消极的眼睛去拨开自己的奋斗历程,并且恶狠狠地把它们全部否定,以求现在良心上的安慰。(认清自己有多难?

真正当他们可以勇敢面对过去,能细细回顾过去的每一天的时候,其实…………人们可以泪流满面,只是,很少去有这个勇气去反思(  反思不是目的,太多人喜欢回头去否定,太少人去猜想:

今天又将是未来哪一天的过去?

 

 

 

 

对话录3·你不是真的想离开

对话录5·你在意的那些其实是什么?

 莫犯“高级”错误

你能承担得起怎样的成本?

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