成功太可怕,从容做自己

 

成功太可怕,从容做自己

                                                                                                                                                                 文/吕布凡     我们都知道,回答问题是需要考究的,实际上大多数人问问题是有问题的, 一个小朋友在我清晨未完全清醒的时候给我发一条信息,很可怕:     “布布老师,怎么样才能成为像你一样成功的人?” 我迅速清醒过来,不好打击这个追求向上的孩子,回复说:    “成功两字很可怕,从容做你自己就可以当做成功了。”      太多人要追求“多快好省”的成功,为此去寻求方法,忘记了“为学者,必有初”的深意。慢慢地我们不难发现,我们有了名、有了钱,并不快乐的原因,是我们无法认清自己,无法认清自己之后坦然地做自己想做的和该做的事情。当你还年轻,你该努力知道的是,自己在人群中角色是谁,自己想做什么,自己 想要什么。      这个已经足够花一辈子去研究了,至于是不是大众眼里所谓的“成功”,那太不重要了。


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