莫犯“高级”错误
莫犯“高级”错误
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“低级错误”是学生时代的人们常常拿来回避问题的一种说辞，比如明明是考场上没想起来的公式，非要等发下试卷的时候不承认错误，而拿犯了“低级错误”来搪塞别人，也欺骗自己，当然，其间有微妙的心理活动，甚至自己都不能觉察到，这是不敢正视错误的一种行为，过去我的老师常常会拿“罚抄1000遍”强制我们反思，借以面对这个错误，结果是公式记住了，我们就永远地认为老师是“不辨是非”的，是“狠毒”的……
这是低级错误，那么从“比较级”的角度出发，不是那么低级，或者“高级”错误是什么样的呢？近期从教学和沟通中总结出了以下几点：
一：给我讲讲XXX的方法吧
如果XX得方法能通过给你讲一讲就能令你豁然开朗了，那么还要老师干什么？
如果所有的问题都可以简单地说明白就则已了，那么谁还去在实验室里没日没夜地工作？
再假设，理论和方法真的可以“讲一讲”就万事大吉，听者就有了大幅度的提高，那么为什么还有那么多“名师”麾下也有被开除的、落榜的学生？
二：XXX好么？XX有名么？
老师再好，也不一定适合每一个学生，学习毕竟是学生的任务，只要能起到点拨的作用，任何一位老师都可以称为是好老师；
世界上有那么多人物在死后才被大众认可，成为“名人”，那么所谓的“有名”真的难以有什么标准来判断；
那么多的得道高僧并不被我们知道，那是因为我们并不热衷于佛法，那么一个人有名无名多不在于他的影响力占多少分值，还有大众的欣赏水平处在什么欣赏档次，比如，在我小学的时候，你和我谈任何国家领导人、任何世界杯明星，对我来说，都不是“有名"的，而我的体育老师则是“名师”，因为他告诉我，这个圆东西用脚来踢，所以我们叫它“足球”。
三：XXXX之后有什么效果，XXX之后能提高多少分数？
这个就举例来说吧，假设你去问：结婚之后有什么效果，你若是答：“能生出孩子”，岂不令人耻笑，你怎么能保证二位新人全部健康无恙？
你又怎能得知他们不在新婚的第二天便不合而离异？
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