那里的生活,你不了解
那里的生活,你不了解
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认清自己需要心思,认识别人需要时间,认识别人的生活则需要心思加上更多的时间,因为多数人是没有耐心去了解他人的生活,多数人爱做的一件事就是根据个人的喜好去随意评判一下,那人的生活很优越、或者,那人的生活中的举动、行为很糟糕……
今天马路上的小事提醒了我。
傍晚的小城,一路“飙车”的青年飞驰而过,其实速度并不快,个性却是因他们都把车子的音响开到极大,想来飙车没有速度的话里当不算是飙车了,而且,车子是摩托车,倒是一些年纪也不大的人开口了:这帮活腻歪的小青年…… 笑之,自走我的路,那里的乐趣路人不知道,那人的年青自有他要展示的理由,或许到他老的时候也会说:我年轻是真傻,居然开个大傻摩托车,装潢得像跑跑卡丁车那样满街乱跑,那也是因为,那时的他也已经不在年轻了、不再理解了。
再想一想,身边的一朋友,矢志不渝地坚持出国,为之奋斗了许多年,甚至毕业了也没有去工作,自己又在家里为之坚持了一年,别人就有人在背后责问:出国,真的那么好么?
好吧,借了第一个例子答复他吧:“那里的乐趣,你不了解。”
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