你“以为”的不可以
Chapter.1 你“以为”的不可以
你回到家就躺床上,没有固定姿态,怎倒下的,就维持那个架势仰望屋顶。
除呼吸之外,不再有任何多余声响发出……
我们的妈妈小心翼翼地向我描述你在她眼中的病态:来的突然,发作的迅猛,她自己呢,担心得要命。
你说,郁闷。
我自然是理解,复读班的人和一个人都擅于施压,有机会就给老师、同学施压,没有机会就自己压迫自己,在那样的abnormal 的群落中,你很正常地表达了自己的感受。
这是心理健康无比的象征,我很高兴。
我又要给你讲大学的事情了:一次期末考试,一WM 同学望着满眼陌生的数字组合憋了一个小时没憋出几个公式,以憋出满颊大汗告终他的物理考试,剩余的实在让人窒息的题是死也做不下去了,他觉得上帝在指使他交卷,再不交卷马上就会死在血泊里,这种感觉不太好,感觉促使他第一个将试卷交到老师的手里。
他走出考场的一瞬间,全班都听到WM 同学的长吁:解脱了—— 虽然没有死在考场的血泊里,他的分数依旧死得很难看:59分挂掉。
- 你可以试想,在考试还有一个小时的时间,对于一个能考入重点大学的脑袋来说,真的不能再做出一分值的题目吗?
他倒下得太早了,仅仅是因为他臆断、他以为、他猜测的自己挺不住了,这种“以为”的情绪让他自己逃开了困境,回来再思: “以为不可”是真的“不可”么?真的就差最后一小步时被自己放倒吗?
- 你呢?郁闷得没有声响的你,真的挺不住了,还是太娇惯自己了?
- 如果是你,在考试还有一个小时的时间,对于一个能考入重点大学的大脑袋来说,真的不能再做出一分值的题目吗,而现在的呢真的有你“以为”的那么“郁闷”么?
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