莫因时间使自由变得不自由
莫因时间使自由变得不自由
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- 十年前，一个年长我十岁的侄女告诉我，她想学电脑，她想在深圳打工、然后当老板，十年后的现在我联系不上她，听说她已经嫁到了她老家附近的村子，有一个平稳的家庭，按照季节劳作，有一个女儿，她的样子应该就是十年前她从来没有想过的农妇形象。
- 五年前，一个年长我两岁的姐姐只身一人去了上海，说要坚持把自考拿下，逃出家中父亲的魔掌。现在她已经不知不觉工作了3年，大专自考文凭还没有下来，各式各样的工作换了几种，在江湖中变得老道、找到了一个还算称意的研究生对象，每日里担心倘若是结婚，100年的工资也买不下上海的一套房子、学历之差又时时会敲打自己担忧之心。当我在一处写下“不要因为时间的流逝，让自由变得不自由”时，她深深叹气。
- 三年前，我曾对自己和自己的专业山盟海誓，曾经宿夜不停地想尽办法使自己在实力和成绩上都高人一等、胜人一筹，三年后的现在托福成绩还不能让我自由地说出国、随意就能有一个学校愿意接收。当我再回顾时，发现所谓的当时已经尽力的情况下，时间利用得竟不是那么有价值。
今天傍晚，听了一个工作了3年，自称走过6年弯路的前台咨询人员诉苦，她说了自己从年轻到如今自己一路的选择，当时竟都是做了让如今看来那么不成熟、那么不会好好使用青春的事情，一旦工作有变，竟没有什么一技之长。
故此，今天又重复了前些日子说过的话，借以自勉，记录在案。
莫因时间使自由变得不自由，无论现在的你是自由的、忙碌的，还是安逸的，在未来、回头看今天，只要还是有时间，那么，好好使用，莫使青春空度，白发空叹、不敢回首当初。
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