“看上去”的问话,怎么能够回答?
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又有一可爱的人以我深觉无奈的方式问我:那个人(我的邻居)是不是很乖?
我问:何以见得?
可爱的人对曰:看上去很乖,不是么?
我自足暗地发笑,这可爱的人真是让听者觉得可爱气十足,这种逻辑推理出的句子实在让人无法去驳证,在生活常识上,看上去并没有什么不妥,但在这成年人的头脑里,看上去很乖就可以用反问句去争得我的认同,难道让人还有心情或者任何办法从低年级的逻辑去耐心解释么?
最好的回答,不伤害自己坚持已久的判断原则、又不显得带了太多感情色彩的回答,如下:
眼睛望着可爱的某某,微笑,然后轻松地再伏案忙活自己的事情,当做完全没有听到这样的问话,也当做心中从来没有对人们日常所犯的思考错误发笑过一样。
看上去是七彩的东西,挂在天上,分外引人注意,真的有人上去触摸恐怕就要生气了,彩色的东西哪里去了?还是方向没有找对?
此时,错的不是找寻彩虹的方向,是思考逻辑和认知态度,一看到就立刻接受了,还天真地以为看到的就是它本来的真面目,这不又回到了口唇期的孩童了,看得见的都是食物,都要往嘴里填,这在我们现在的成年人看来,不是过于简单而无法再耐心着好意思地去给他说些什么道理,比如,我们看到了一位成年人,他抓到了什么都往嘴里送,我怎耐着心好意思地告诉他:
这个是不能吃的、这个才是能吃的。
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