粗心大意是掩饰的谎言
Chapter.3 粗心大意是掩饰的谎言
“考试状态还行，题出得还算正常，就是有几个地方粗心大意了，要不然 我会考得比现状好的多，多的多……”
以上是你常借来搪塞自己，聊以自慰的惯用语。说实话，不比我当年的谎言高明到哪里去，呵呵，终归是来自同一个版本DNA 的姐弟。
我发现了自己在“如果不粗心”的条件下，会给自己提高许多排名上的阶层，在红榜上把位置提前一大截，这并不令人惊奇，令我真正惊奇的是——在某个特定的圈子中，最优秀的那个家伙也会像笨笨的我们那样粗心大意，正如他（她）是最优秀的那个结局一样，我们的粗心大意导致了失分，而优秀的人的粗心大意并没有对水平的发挥起到多余的副作用。
- 即：实力足够雄厚的人不受粗心大意这一缺点的限制，粗心大意地做事情， 一样做得不会很糟糕，尽管效率不会很高，算出的答案还都能大多是对的。又如同与人相处，更如同考场发挥，做得足够好，粗心大意不会占据决定分数因素的主导。
每个人都会粗心大意，到底“粗”到什么程度，“大”到什么地步，实际就是实力强壮的程度。一次几乎裸体式地暴露了你所有薄弱环节的考试，你就会怀疑当时的考场里自己在想什么呢，自己是怎么了，你以“粗心大意”去掩饰了实力薄弱这一事实，你是会很快找到开脱罪责的后路—-“下次认真点”，它顺其自然地成为抚平你伤痛的幌子。
可是，在试卷难易程度存在概率的情况下，一个实力不够强壮的人， 再仔细能仔细出什么实力呢？
所谓“粗心大意”就是对知识的不熟悉，是仅了解到而没有掌握到的内容，如你小时吃饭同道理，小时的你总趴在桌子边直立着吃饭以防饭食半路打嗝形成“倒流”或是吃到满身，你是很认真细心地用勺吃饭舀菜，总有星星般的小米粒粘你两腮挥之不去，为何？是吃饭的技术掌握得不够纯熟。
十一、二个月的成熟你无法保证手中的勺恰巧被送入口中，把饭粒倒在与嘴巴接近的方圆1CM 近的小脸腮边实属正常举动，去怪罪你会吃饭却粗心大意地把饭弄到脸上全然是没有道理的，是明明白白开脱你不会吃饭的理由，考试，亦如是。
现如今十七、八岁的你边骑自行车边吃零食，边看电视边粗心大意地想着你与电视情节有关的经历，都不会把饭再送到脸上，为何？吃饭的技术掌握得足够纯熟。
足够纯熟的技能不会因为粗心大意而影响发挥，学习考试、与人交往上亦 同此道理，所谓的错心大意不过是一个宽容自己的借口而已。实力足够雄厚的人不受粗心大意这一缺点的限制，粗心大意地做事情，一样是对的，如同与人相处，更如同考场发挥，做得足够好，粗心大意不会占主导。 （文/吕布凡）
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