我喜欢

                             我喜欢

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最近的老同学总会在联络的有意无意间说出“不喜欢”,来坦然自己的喜好,这是比较放松的谈话里,我们才能得到的信息,回顾几年的工作学习中,竟没有发现“不喜欢”、“我喜欢”成为谁的高频词,尤为深刻是暑假班的一堂课上,我的一句“我喜欢”竟让让自己汗颜了许久……原来自己随心所愿地表达自己的喜好竟然有时会让自己为之惊叹。

  •      一个得了我奖品的小朋友,在英语阅读的课上,勉强回答对了一个小问题,问我:布布,算不算数?
  •     我说:当然算数。
  •      于是,她得了一本绿色的高考作文书。


暑假的班里,为了得到另一本红色的高考作文书,这个小朋友在课上用尽办法努力在一分钟内背出一首词,她没有完成,第二天的课上要求要背诵,问我:算不算数?

  • 我说:努力,谁也不会管你是当面的,还是偷偷的,所以肯定算数。


她又得了一本红色的作文书,刚好凑成一套,不同的是她已经不坐在角落里,对上课的重心能有了感知。
得道了奖品的这小朋友得意地问:布布,这么送,你会破产的吧?
“我喜欢啊……呵呵”
我的声音不大,在大家的笑声中更显纤小,我又严肃地重复了一句“我喜欢”。

“哇……”小朋友们惊叹,我自己也惊叹了。直白地表述喜好居然这样简单又震撼。

本也是因为气氛和娱乐,想通过这种督促的办法让大家喜欢上课、练就默默努力地习惯,相比之下,几本书算什么,可不就是“喜欢”么。几个成人还会在做选择的时候,不考虑利润、能多顾忌自己的感受,自省一下—这么做,我是喜欢呢,还是有什么目的呢?

 

 

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