我喜欢
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最近的老同学总会在联络的有意无意间说出“不喜欢”，来坦然自己的喜好，这是比较放松的谈话里，我们才能得到的信息，回顾几年的工作学习中，竟没有发现“不喜欢”、“我喜欢”成为谁的高频词，尤为深刻是暑假班的一堂课上，我的一句“我喜欢”竟让让自己汗颜了许久……原来自己随心所愿地表达自己的喜好竟然有时会让自己为之惊叹。
- 一个得了我奖品的小朋友，在英语阅读的课上，勉强回答对了一个小问题，问我：布布，算不算数？
- 我说：当然算数。
- 于是，她得了一本绿色的高考作文书。
暑假的班里，为了得到另一本红色的高考作文书，这个小朋友在课上用尽办法努力在一分钟内背出一首词，她没有完成，第二天的课上要求要背诵，问我：算不算数？
- 我说：努力，谁也不会管你是当面的，还是偷偷的，所以肯定算数。
她又得了一本红色的作文书，刚好凑成一套，不同的是她已经不坐在角落里，对上课的重心能有了感知。
得道了奖品的这小朋友得意地问：布布，这么送，你会破产的吧？
“我喜欢啊……呵呵”
我的声音不大，在大家的笑声中更显纤小，我又严肃地重复了一句“我喜欢”。
“哇……”小朋友们惊叹，我自己也惊叹了。直白地表述喜好居然这样简单又震撼。
本也是因为气氛和娱乐，想通过这种督促的办法让大家喜欢上课、练就默默努力地习惯，相比之下，几本书算什么，可不就是“喜欢”么。几个成人还会在做选择的时候，不考虑利润、能多顾忌自己的感受，自省一下—这么做，我是喜欢呢，还是有什么目的呢？
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